Florida is the one state where a couple can book a lifestyle vacation without leaving home. Three clothing-optional resorts sit within an hour of each other: Caliente in Land O' Lakes and Paradise Lakes in Lutz, both north of Tampa, and Secrets Hideaway in Kissimmee, a few miles from the Orlando theme parks. Each takes day guests as well as overnight stays, so plenty of Florida couples treat them like a weekend club with a pool attached.
South Florida runs on nightclubs. Trapeze Fort Lauderdale in Tamarac marked 30 years in 2026 and opens most nights of the week. Miami Velvet near Doral is a 20,000 square foot BYOB club open Friday and Saturday. Miami also has invitation-style groups such as Silk Lifestyle, which rents private homes for themed parties. Couples in their 50s and 60s should know that VIP Bliss, the long-running Miami party group, says openly that it markets to a younger crowd.
Farther north the scene gets smaller and more personal. Tampa has Eyz Wide Shut on Adamo Drive, Daytona Beach has Minglers, the Space Coast has Club 3X in Cocoa, and Jacksonville has Club Uninhibited plus a long-running Saturday house party. Hotel takeovers also land here, including Splash's CouplesXcape in Fort Lauderdale, and several lifestyle cruises sail from Florida ports.
Clubs and organizers in Florida
Caliente Club & Resorts · Land O' Lakes
Clothing-optional resort with condos, casitas and hotel rooms, five pools, a spa and restaurant; the nightclub runs Thursday to Saturday. Licensed bar, not BYOB; day and annual memberships. Their site.
Paradise Lakes Resort · Lutz
Clothing-optional resort open daily with pool, hot tub, restaurant, licensed bars, dance floor and hotel rooms. Outside alcohol is not permitted; day passes and overnight stays available. Their site.
Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa · Kissimmee
Couples-focused resort on Irlo Bronson Highway with a nightclub (Tuesday and Thursday to Saturday), private and group playrooms, a dungeon and pool bar. Membership required; playrooms are nude or towel only and phones are not allowed. Their site.
Trapeze Fort Lauderdale · Tamarac
Open Wednesday to Sunday with three BYOB bars, a dance floor, private and group rooms, lockers and showers. Saturdays are couples and single women only; the club celebrated its 30th anniversary in May 2026. Their site.
Miami Velvet · Miami
20,000 square foot BYOB club open Friday and Saturday nights, with 15+ private locking rooms, a group room, steam lounges and a clothing-optional area. Upscale dress code enforced; single men admitted Fridays only. Their site.
Eyz Wide Shut · Tampa
Open Thursday to Sunday across two adjoining buildings with ten themed suites, three group rooms, a dance floor and buffet. Licensed cash bar, not BYOB; dress code applies Friday and Saturday. Their site.
Minglers Social Club · Daytona Beach
BYOB club open Friday and Saturday nights with a dance floor, play rooms and a themed fetish room. Dress to impress: no athletic wear, caps or cargo pants. Their site.
Club 3X · Cocoa
Small membership club open Wednesday to Saturday with four private rooms, a loft with beds, a dance floor and pool table. Clothing-optional. Their site.
Orlando Swingers Club · Orlando
Has run BYOB lifestyle parties since 2000, now as themed events on Tuesdays and Friday and Saturday nights. Ages 21 and up. Their site.
Club Uninhibited · Jacksonville
Members-only BYOB club with a dance floor, lounge and play rooms, running themed parties from an event calendar. Membership requires an application and rules review. Their site.
Mitch's Place · Jacksonville
Weekly Saturday night BYOB house party with a hot tub, dance floor and covered patio. Couples and single women only; booking is by phone and the address is given then. Their site.
Silk Lifestyle · Miami
Application-only group hosting roughly monthly ticketed themed parties in rented private homes, with a licensed bar. Their site.
Splash Takeovers (CouplesXcape) · Fort Lauderdale
Couples-only hotel buyouts; CouplesXcape ran in Fort Lauderdale September 10 to 13, 2026. Clothing-optional at the pool and convention areas only. Their site.
VIP Bliss · Miami Beach
Screened monthly EDM-style lifestyle parties in South Florida since 2003. The group says it markets to a younger crowd. Their site.
Also listed in directories but not confirmed current when we checked: Velvet FTL. Call or check their pages before you plan a trip.
Where it happens
- Tampa Bay. Home to two resorts, Caliente and Paradise Lakes, plus Eyz Wide Shut in Tampa itself.
- Orlando and Kissimmee. Secrets Hideaway sits near the theme parks and Orlando Swingers Club runs parties in town.
- Fort Lauderdale. Trapeze in Tamarac anchors Broward County, and hotel takeovers and cruises use the city as a base.
- Miami. Miami Velvet near Doral plus private-home party groups such as Silk Lifestyle.
- Jacksonville. A smaller, members-first scene built around Club Uninhibited and a weekly house party.
- Daytona Beach and the Space Coast. Minglers in Daytona and Club 3X in Cocoa serve the east coast between Jacksonville and Palm Beach.
Florida's Panhandle west of the Apalachicola River (Pensacola, Panama City) is on Central time; the rest of the state is Eastern.
Common questions
Is there a lifestyle resort in Florida?
Yes, three. Caliente Club & Resorts in Land O' Lakes and Paradise Lakes in Lutz are north of Tampa, and Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa is in Kissimmee near Orlando.
Can we visit a Florida resort for the day?
Caliente and Paradise Lakes both offer day access alongside overnight stays, and Secrets Hideaway sells memberships with nightly entry. Check each resort's own site for current terms.
Which Florida clubs are BYOB?
Trapeze Fort Lauderdale, Miami Velvet, Minglers in Daytona Beach and Club Uninhibited in Jacksonville are BYOB. Eyz Wide Shut in Tampa and the resorts run licensed bars instead.
What happened to Club Hedonism in Pompano Beach?
It rebranded during the pandemic and the Sample Road location now operates as Defy Lifestyle Club under new management.
Checked against each club's own site in September 2026. Clubs change; confirm details with them before you go. More places: every state guide.
